However, if the 2 guys want to try each other out, the best thing to do is discuss it first so you know how far it’s going to go.
Richard is straight so there is no chance of him doing this so we know even if another guy is bi, cards onthe table – don’t touch my man! (Besides he has too anyladies who need his attention)
I have had two of my guys try each other out in the past.
Best way is do what you normally do – a spitroast, and let the guys move onto each other.
Start with handjobs and move onto blowjobs.
If there is going to be penetration make sure it’s decided who will go in who – to many guys this will be losing their “virginity” and it needs to be relaxed and no pressure.
I had the flip of a MMF where one guy was bi-curious and I had a gay male friend join us -no contact between me and him – it was so the curious guy could try gay sex. He had his “anal cherry” popped quite spectacularly (I was quite jealous my gay friend wouldn’t oblge me- after all, an ass is an ass).
He seemed OK on the night, but in the week following he had a difficult time coping with it.
For a bi curious girl a bit of hands and oral doesn’t hurt.
For a guy who is bi-curious, it’s a very dificult way to find out that you’re straight!
I first tried MMF out when Nat and I were playing with another couple we have known for years, in fact they were the first couple we ever “played” with. They are a lovely and very highly sexed couple and over many meetings with them both Natalie and I have become totally comfortable with them and started trying out lots of stuff we would never have thought of. As both Natalie and Tiffany (name changed), his partner, love multiple penetrations he and I got into some pretty close positions together. Once, about a year ago, he and Tiff were enjoying a 69 and I was shagging her at the same time (I think Nat was taking a “fag break”) and I suddenly felt my balls being sucked and played with. I love this and after a short time exploded in Tiff’s puss. Well after that the ice was broken a bit and he and I do go for a bit of oral on each other which the girls love to watch and help us with, sometimes criticising our technique!
I have had oral from a guy a few times since then, although when swinging I tend to keep the fact that I am cool with this a bit quiet in case it freaks the other guy of the couple out. Also I have to admit I don’t mind sucking the odd cock if its a nice smooth one Natalie laughs at me for this, she says “whats a nice one? They are all nice!” but I know what I mean!). I also must put on record that guys do give very good bj’s! Maybe its like the girls say about bi experiences – only a girl knows what a girl likes – could be similar
with guys.
Nat loves the fact that I am cool with this stuff, and in fact admits its a big turn on to watch me “playing the pink oboe” as she so delicately puts it. I find that in a close foursome situation with another couple its great if there are very few barriers and if
something presents itself in front of my face and looks like it could do with sucking or licking (male or female) then I tend to go for it.
You do tend to err on the side of caution with new couples though. We met and played with one couple a few times until we found out the other guy loved some oral “bi-play” and that was only because he noticed one of our ads somewhere we had put that I could be orally bi. Both of us had kept quiet about it in case it freaked out the other one!
I found myself in a situation connected with MMF a few years ago where i met a friend of mine for a drink ( i knew he was bi from years ago ), anyway after meeting his missus and having a number of drinks we ended up at their house where we ended up naked on the frontroom floor, after we took turns to lick her out she said that she wanted to watch us suck each other off and funnily enough i let it happen, he has quite a large cock ( 8 1/2″ ) but i found it quite enjoyable when i did let him put it in my mouth, anyway, after that we took in turns to have sex with the girl but just as my mate was about to come she wanted to watch me suck him again as he come, i was a bit reluctant to do that but all of a sudden he pulled his cock out of her and straight into my mouth and shot a huge amount of cum into the back of my throat that i had no choice but to swallow it, can’t say that i liked the taste of the stuff just didn’t have much choice though.
After he pulled out of my mouth i looked at her and she loved watching that so i just put it down to experience in the end, i’m not gay or anything as i prefer women any day of the week but it was an interesting evening, funnily enough they are married with 2 kids now but i still see him around occasionally, and a few times he has been to my flat to get a blow-job and still i let him cum in my mouth, no idea why i swallow the stuff but it must have seemed like a good idea at the time, just as well my missus doesn’t know.