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Photos in the swinger dating ads. Are they really that important?

Here is some opinions from the members of swinger club:

- I have to be attracted to the people I swing with and would hope they find me attractive too. I cannot imagine that anyone would be able to perform with someone they were not attracted too. I may be wrong of course but it's not for me!! We insist on photo's and always send ours too. There is nothing wrong in saying thanks but no thanks. I have spoken to many people on this site who are lovely and we have a great relationship but I would not jump into the sack with them. So yes, Photos are important.

- I change my mind constantly about pics. Sometimes I insist on them and will not reply if someone doesn't send some. Other times I really don't care if they do or don't send pics. The times I do care is when I'm looking for something specific, like hairless or whatever. If someone sent a pic that obviously wasn't them when we met there is no way they would get any fun - but this has never happened to me yet! As for sending pics of me to others. I only do this on request and will not send any ruder ones than are on my web site, so pic collectors don't get a look in. Funnily enough, people rarely ask for pics of me - either they're not interested in knowing what I look like or they're too scared to ask.
-You have to find the other person attractive, but that's a word with as many meanings as there are people. Everyone has their own individual idea about what makes someone attractive. So whether or not photos are important depends on who you are, what you like, what mood you're in, and likely a host of others. Now, just to show that my answers aren't always "it depends", and I can be decisive: if you send a photo of yourself to show what you look like, SEND A PHOTO OF YOURSELF. Blatant dishonesty like that isn't on.

-I used to meet couples for threesomes back in the days before the internet became popular, via ads in Loot, the classified ads paper. We never exchanged photos at all before meeting up, and things went fine as often as not. I sometimes wish for those days to come back, as a lot of people seem to be so obsessed with seeing pics of people, some insisting on seeing pics before they will even chat online with someone. But there seems to be no way of avoiding playing the pics game now, although you simply cannot judge anyone from pics, as the sensible ones among us know.

Is it really so important?...

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