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Fairly isolated from the main Swinging area.
What does a genuine
couple have to do on swinger dating site for a good bonk and sexy fun?
(We dont get much luck even though we try).
You seem to have a similar problem to me, in that we
are both fairly isolated from the main Swinging area.
In my area there are perhaps 4 or 5 swinging couples who are only
looking for other couples, and about a dozen single guys looking for
local single females of which there are apparenlty, none.
I have found from personal experience, the only way
to have some success is be willing to travel. That's not always an
option for couples who perhaps have children at home. As a single male
with my own transport I have that freedom. My last meeting required a
round trip of over 400 miles, a long way to go I agree, but it was
worth it.
If you can accomodate others it will be to your
advantage, if you can't, then you will have to travel, if you can. One
good way to get to know other swingers would be to attend one of the
forthcoming 'Munches'. At least that way you will get to meet and speak
to many other couples and single folk. Meetings prior to actual
swinging at least gives you the chance to see what the others are like,
and see if they meet your personal requirements, an important part of
the swinging process for both parties. 8)
All of my meetings have been made through contacts
made through the Chatroom rather than through 'photo adds' or the 'Lets
Meet' section of swinger dating site. It has often been said with more
than a modicum of truth, that there's 'nothing instant' in Swinging. It
took me several months to eventually make contact with a like minded
lady, since then things have picked up but even so all my
meetings required at least a round trip of 150 miles.
Please don't dispair, it will happen, but probably
later rather than sooner. Stick at it, you will be successful
eventually. Best of luck.
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